A camper and counselor stand in front of a crowd of summer camp boys seated behind them. The featured camper is holding his honor camper plaque.

Leading by Example: How One Camper Helped Build Community at YMCA Camp Abnaki

At Camp Abnaki, an historic summer camp for boys, summers are about more than just time on the lake—they’re about building confidence, character, and lifelong friendships. For Max, returning for his second summer meant stepping into a new role: not just camper, but leader.

At the beginning of his second summer, Max arrived with a familiar sense of excitement—and a new responsibility. He brought along a friend who was attending camp for the very first time. For many campers, those first few days can feel overwhelming. Camp Abnaki’s 89-acre setting on Lake Champlain offers endless opportunities—from swimming and sailing to archery, hiking, and arts—but it can take time to feel at home in such a dynamic environment. Max made sure his friend didn’t have to navigate it alone.

From the moment they arrived, Max took the initiative to show his friend around camp, introducing him to key places like the waterfront, activity fields, and their cabin in the village. He also made a point to connect him with returning campers, helping him quickly feel part of the Abnaki community. That sense of belonging is central to Camp Abnaki’s mission of fostering a safe, supportive space where every camper can grow and thrive.

Max’s leadership didn’t stop there. Throughout the session, he consistently encouraged his cabinmates to try new activities—whether that meant climbing the high ropes course, picking up a paddle for the first time, or stepping onto the archery range. At Camp Abnaki, campers are guided to stretch beyond their comfort zones, and Max embodied that spirit by leading through action and positivity. He approached every day with enthusiasm and never had a negative word to say, setting a tone that lifted everyone around him.

Living in a close-knit cabin environment naturally comes with its challenges, and conflicts can arise. When they did, Max stepped up as a calm and thoughtful mediator. He helped his peers talk through disagreements, listen to one another, and move forward together. His ability to bring people back together reflected the camp’s core values of respect and community.

Max also became a key support for his counselor, Ernesto. By helping gather the group, reinforcing expectations, and encouraging his fellow campers to listen and participate, Max strengthened the cabin’s sense of teamwork and shared responsibility.

By the end of the summer camp, the impact of Max’s leadership was clear—not only in his friend’s successful first camp experience, but in the confidence and cohesion of the entire cabin. In recognition of his outstanding character and commitment to others, Max was named an Honor Camper during a special end-of-session ceremony.

At Camp Abnaki, stories like Max’s are what a summer camp for boys is all about: young people discovering their ability to lead, support one another, and create a community rooted in safety, respect, and belonging.

Now more than ever, kids need a safe and stimulating environment during the summer where they can develop skills, have fun, and build positive relationships with peers and adults. YMCA summer camp staff foster this by providing creative, age-appropriate, and safe activities that promote social, physical, intellectual, and emotional growth – all through recreational play and hands-on activities. Learn more about all four summer camp options, including YMCA Camp Abnaki, on the Greater Burlington YMCA website.